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Last Tuesday we got a new kitten...
only 6 weeks old. Black and white- so cute and playful. We named
her Licorice. She instantly became part of our family- the kids
have wanted a pet for so long. We all just fell in love with
her.
Now let's skip to Friday...
Friday morning- it was a little busy getting 3 kids breakfast
and trying to get out the door to swimming lessons. The kids,
ages 9, 6 & 4, have been coming in and out of the house- and the
hydraulics on the screen door are broken so each time they go in
and out - it closes with a huge SLAM!!! With all the activity
near the door- little Licorice has been sitting just outside the
door waiting for her opportunity to run inside. The door opens
one more time... and SLAM... Licorice gets caught in the door.
The poor kitty starts thrashing around- obviously really hurt...
I didn't see where the cat got hit- but she is struggling- not
breathing- trying to meow- but no sound is coming out. Obviously
really suffering. I knew right away- it wasn't good- the kids
are freaking out- me too. I yell at the kids to get in the truck
and I drive like crazy to the vet about a mile away- with kitty
on my lap. Sadly while driving- kitty stops struggling and she
was gone. When we got there, the vet wasn't even in the office-
but the assistant confirmed that there was nothing we could do.
Ok- I know- most of us have lost a pet before. But for my kids
this was their first real experience with death and grief. And
to have been witness to the whole tragedy- the suffering- etc.
It was a pretty gruesome site.
On the way home from the vet- my kids just start weeping. Me
too! We get home and for the next half hour- all three of them
are on my lap- faces buried- CLINGING to me and each other- just
WEEPING! It was a very heart wrenching experience for all of us-
and the kids just didn't know how to deal with this emotion.
So needless to say we missed swimming lessons that morning.
By noon, we are in the truck headed to Lovell, Wyoming (25 miles
away) for a Girl Scout activity for my 6 year old daughter. We
spend the afternoon at the park- playing in the wading pool and
the Girl Scouts did crafts. We were starting to clean up- headed
next to the bowling alley for a game.
All the sudden we all hear histerical SCREAMING and it takes a
minute to figure out who and where it is coming from. Then I see
my 9 year old son- on the other side of the pavillion- laying on
the ground curled up in a ball, screaming and rolling around. I
drop everything and run- (mind you I'm 9 months pregnant... and
running) When I get to him he is holding his head with one hand
and holding his leg with the other. He is bleeding out his nose
and his mouth and has a HUGE lump on his forehead (like the size
of a fist). The way he was holding his leg- I thought maybe he
broke it- but quickly realized it was mostly the head injury
that I needed to worry about. Honestly, I'm a little freaked
out... but the other girl scout moms help me get him in the car.
I send my other two kids with another mom (they were headed to
the Bowling Alley after the park). And I take my son to the
hospital. After all the chaos- he ends up with a minor
concussion... and we leave with an ice pack and a list of
instructions.
By now- I am an emotional wreck from the events of the day so
far- and really feel on the verge of tears. We head to the
bowling alley then- to meet back up with the group. We walk in-
I get Porter settled in a chair- and one of the mom's comes over
to check on us. I am standing on the steps that leads down into
the bowling area- she can tell I am upset- and goes to give me a
hug. Well- I go to step down onto the floor- not realizing I had
one more step to go. I end up missing the step and completely
rolling my ankle! I hear the awful sound of ligaments snapping
and popping- and I end up on the floor! (remember 9 months
pregnant) Holy Cow--it hurt SO BAD! So now I have tears running
down my face, I am sitting on the floor because it hurts too bad
to move- and my ankle immediately starts swelling and turning
purple! All I could think was- "Are you kidding me! Can anything
else go wrong!" They got me some ice for the ankle and I just
sat on the floor until it was time to leave. I hobbled out to
the truck- in serious pain- any movement bringing me to tears-
just wanting to go home and bring an end to a HORRIBLE DAY! Then
I remember I still have to drive 25 miles home- and I just
sprained my ankle! How am I suppose to work the gas peddle. With
some tricky footwork- and driving kind of slow- we finally make
it home.
In the meantime- my husband has been home from work for about 2
hours- wondering where we are. (I don't have a cell phone to
call him.) He has no idea what to think- as he finds a dead
kitty in a box when he gets home- my son looks like he's been
hit by a train- and I have a sprained ankle!
What a day! I am so glad it is over- and looking back now- I am
able to find some relief in retelling it- and just pray I don't
have another one of those days. And I am so thankful for my
loving husband- for just taking over when he saw I was so
emotionally spent. He took the kids to the store, made dinner
and just let me have some peace for a while.
I guess these kind of days happen to everyone at some time or
another- but I sure hope it doesn't happen again anytime soon!
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